5-Minute Courage Workout: Stop Dominating Me!

Compiled and written by Lisa and Jennifer:

It is commonly understood that habits are formed or broken in as little as thirty days.  Much of the time we are unaware of the habits that define us, instead opting to run on auto-pilot.  Today, we are suggesting that you turn off the auto-pilot.  The first step to making any kind of change is becoming conscious of how our routines, thinking and reacting to life can dominate us.  Routines can provide a great deal of comfort, but they can also box us in, particularly when they are not healthy habits.  Before your children’s habits and routines become ingrained, you can set a powerful example of flexibility in thinking, feeling and behaving.

Here’s a list of 5-Minute Courage Workouts by age range to turn off the auto pilot.

 Grab Some Lion’s Whiskers Today!
  • Toddler:   On your walk today (or drive) to a daily destination, take a different route than usual.  Announce that you’ll be taking a new path and see what he or she notices.  Notice, yourself, if it seems to bring up any discomfort for your child, or if instead there’s excitement for exploring new territory.
  • PreschoolerDoes your child have a security object?  Try proposing that a different teddy bear or blankie go through the day with your child. (Book recommendation: Knuffle Bunny: A Cautionary Tale by Mo Willems).  If that one is too alarming, try mixing up the bedtime routine.  Have your child “read” the bedtime story to you, or have someone else do the tucking in – or have your child tuck you in, if you’re an early-to-bed sleeper. 
  • Early Elementary:  Give the mac and cheese or the corn flakes a break today.  At this age kids get habituated to favorite foods, so offer something completely different for a change.  It’s not necessary to put peanut sauce or ketchup on everything.
  • Upper Elementary or Tween: This is the age of “like” and “you know” and other verbal tics.  Ask your tween to give a recitation of the day’s events without resorting to any of these lazy language mannerisms.  Get your mental scorepad ready and keep count.  Then let them turn the tables on you and have them count how often you do it, yourself.  Bet you can’t get away with a perfect score!
  • Teens: Have a discussion about goals, hopes and interests now that your teen may be considering college and work options.  Provide pen and paper and ask him or her to write with the non-dominant hand a list of their future hopes, dreams and wishes.  Be prepared to be surprised by what utilizing the other hemisphere of his/her brain may prompt in terms of unexplored hopes and dreams!

Working on these skills may call upon different types of courage.  Review the Six Types of Courage to figure out which types your child might need to complete this workout.  Learning to be conscious of habits – and thus empowered to change them –  may one day save your child’s life.

Care to share what you’ve learned about mixing up routines with your kids?

If you are inspired to stop letting your habits dominate you, you might be interested in this very brief TED lecture on the 30-Day Challenge.

If you’re looking for more workouts, here’s our 5-Minute Courage Workout: A Fate Worse Than Death , 5-Minute Courage Workout: Talking Dirty5-Minute Courage Workout: It’s a Dog Eat Dog World, 5-Minute Courage Workout: Home Alone,  5-Minute Courage Workout: A Fate Worse than Death, 5-Minute Courage Workout: Playing with Fire, 5-Minute Courage Workout: Navigating the Neighborhood, 5-Minute Courage Workout: Say A Little Prayer For Me

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